Diary 5

Last week, something happened to me that I have to share with you all. This happened to me at work while I was interacting with a client. It all started a few weeks back when I noticed a client would look at me but stare longer than the usual 1 second eye contact, it was more like 3 seconds. Think about it, staring at someone for this amount of time is actually very long which made me really uncomfortable cuz I was only about a metre away from him. Then as he left he closed the door after him but turned around as he did this to make eye contact with me again.

Then last week, I was speaking to him and he said he wanted to know what days I worked so he would come in then. When it comes to uncomfortable situations like this, the only thing I can do is laugh and shrug it off cuz that's how I am. He then cockily asked, "so when are we going to go for coffee?" This took me by surprise and I laughed and responded, "you have a girlfriend!” I know this cuz they would come in together. "Actually, I'm married." All I can think was are you serious? Not only did he have a wife, but he had the audacity to tell me and correct me about it! This made me angry cuz I do not stand for cheating, even though nothing happened. He definitely had the intention to ask me out. As he walked out, he said, "so coffee?" and I responded by shaking my head at him. "It's just coffee," he said casually. This made me so angry, really just coffee? Cuz that's all you have in mind. Well if that's the case, why don't you ask every Tom, Dick, and Harry out for coffee then? Cuz it ain't just coffee! Don't make that lame ass excuse! "Don't tell anyone," he said as he put his fingers to his lips indicating the shhh motion. Well guess what, the second after he left, I told a coworker.

This is something that I just couldn't keep to myself. How absurd, once this guy comes in on his own without his wife, he decides to make a move. I was thinking, I should call his wife and let him know what kind of guy she's married to and let her know what really happened when she wasn't there. This also led me thinking, what else does he do when she's not around.

I hate cheating, the thought of it and everything about it! No tolerance. There's no reason to cheat, break up with someone so you don't have to cheat. People that cheat just want their cake and eat it too, well guess what, you are an ass if you go ahead with it. And being the "other woman" and getting hit on is really offensive and I won't put up with that shit. Do you really think I'm gonna get "coffee" with you and think that you don't have any other intentions. How stupid and naive do you think I am?

Needless to say, I felt very awkward after when I saw him again. When I knew he was coming in, I would hide out in the back to make sure I didn't have to interact with him. Way to make everyone feel tense and uncomfortable ASSHOLE!

Moral of the story, please don't cheat or intend on it. It hurts the other person but really it will hurt you the most. It's not worth it. And you don't want to go to bed at night with that on your mind. The conscious is a bitch! Everyone needs a peace of mind.